This is not a problem for Muslim men.
The problem is your mind.
We Muslim men will not practice the religion of happy polytheists. How do you want to live the same way as the infidels do?
The Muslim religion does not allow you to live an unlimited life.
The truth is that it is in the will of Allah. Then life must have a limit. You are transgressors.
You pray to polytheists. Instead of Allah. You know that we men will not talk to you aaaaa